Your Ultimate Period Sex Guide 🔥

Your Ultimate Period Sex Guide 🔥

In our culture, period sex is still a topic that carries a certain level of stigma. However, as we challenge the notion that periods are dirty, shameful, or unsavory, it's important to discuss and normalize the idea of having sex during menstruation.

Just like we engage in various activities while menstruating, there's no reason why sex should be any different. Embracing the experience of period sex, with all its messy perfection, can be a truly delightful and fulfilling experience. To do so, it's essential to address any fears, shame, concerns, or lack of information you may have.

Tools of the Trade

Contrary to popular belief, period sex doesn't have to involve a partner. Masturbation during your period can be incredibly soothing, especially if your body feels a bit unpredictable. When it comes to using toys or tools, opt for ones that are body-safe and non-porous, such as pure silicone, stainless steel, ABS plastic, or glass. Darker-colored toys can help prevent staining over time, and always remember to clean your toy between sessions. Toys like the We-Vibe Rave or the Svakom Keri, which provide options for internal or external stimulation, offer versatility and varying pleasure.

While your period blood can act as natural lubrication, adding some lube can enhance sensations. Be sure to avoid using silicone-based lubes with silicone toys, but water-based or hybrid lubes are safe with any material. Recommended options include Sliquid's Sea, which contains vaginal-enhancing seaweed extract, or Good Clean Love's Almost Naked lube with soothing aloe. CBD lubes like Bella CBD Aqua D'Amore water-based lube can also help relieve cramps and muscle tension in the vaginal canal.

Lastly, it's nice to have a Period Sex Blanket to protect your sheets from stains!

Overcoming Roadblocks

Engaging in period sex may require a bit more planning, and in a society that values spontaneous sex, this can be seen as a hindrance. However, taking the time to prepare can actually enhance the experience. If you're concerned about making a mess, laying a blanket down or having one already draped over your bed can provide an easy solution. Although period blood won't harm your partner, using barrier methods and gloves can make cleanup easier.

Remember, there is still a slight chance of pregnancy during your period, and contracting STDs is still possible. Therefore, it's crucial not to neglect your birth control or STD barriers during this time. Keeping fragrance-free, body-safe wipes nearby can also be helpful.

Another obstacle to consider is adapting to your body's sensitivities throughout your menstrual cycle. Sometimes, penetrative sex may not feel the best, especially if using tampons or menstrual cups has made your vaginal canal more sensitive. In such cases, it may be necessary to redefine what you consider as sex and explore other activities and forms of stimulation. Focusing on external stimulation, BDSM activities, or anal play might be more comfortable for you during your period.

Conversation Starters

The best time to discuss sex is not right before getting intimate. Surprises in the bedroom are generally not well-received, so it's advisable to have a conversation with your partner beforehand.

Invite your partner to share their concerns about period sex and address each one of them. This requires both transparency and openness from your partner to reevaluate their opinions about period sex, as well as your guidance in providing accurate information. While it's not necessary to hold your partner's hand throughout the process, it's worthwhile to direct them to reputable resources, such as this article, for more information.

In general, your partner's receptiveness to this new information can be indicative of how much they value your pleasure. Remember, it's essential to value your own pleasure as well.

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